Teach Your Child That Teenage Pregnancies Are Life Changing
Events
Any teen going through the public or private school system
has likely been exposed in some way or another to sex
education. During this sex education, the teens will hopefully
learn about teen pregnancy facts. It’s unfortunate that teenage
pregnancies are growing in occurrence. More teens are getting
pregnant than at any other time in history. Teens are maturing
faster, they’re reaching puberty faster, the media is saturated
with sexual themes and that’s not even mentioning peer pressure
and temptation that often leads to teens having sex. Teenage
pregnancies do not have to happen, however. The teens of this
era need to be educated. They need to be taught that teenage
pregnancies are life changing events.
Teaching Your Teen
You can spend all day talking about birth control pills,
condoms, abstinence and the birds in the bees until you’re blue
in the face and it’s likely not going to do any good. Oh sure,
your teen will learn a lot and that education can help him or
her prevent teenage pregnancies; but will they actually use
what you teach them? When it comes down to sex, sometimes the
temptation is so great that birth control is the furthest thing
from their minds. Even if birth control is available, it’s hard
to stop to put on a condom or to think rationally that teenage
pregnancies result from such unsafe behavior. Instead of
talking about birth control and condoms and safe sex and
abstinence, teach your child just how much his or her life will
change if they happen to experience teenage pregnancy first
hand.
Life On Hold
A woman who experiences teenage pregnancy will have to
endure nine months of her body changing more than it already is
due to puberty. Mood swings will be worse than they already are
and that can make going to school very difficult. While other
teens are out with their friends having fun, your teen will
have to stay home to nurse her sore feet or back and she’ll
have to spend time preparing for the baby’s arrival. Once the
baby arrives because of the teenage pregnancy, your teen’s life
is going to change drastically. Taking care of an infant is a
full time job. It’s not like a dog where you can just stick it
in a cage while you go to school or work. There’s day care,
babysitting, feeding, waking up in the middle of the night and
much more. Sure, it’s a very rewarding experience and
childbirth is a miracle but teenage pregnancies essentially rob
a young person of his or her youth.
Taking Responsibility
If the teen is male, teenage pregnancies will affect his
life as well. He will have to take financial responsibility for
the child. If he doesn’t, he can be taken to court and he can
have his wages garnished.
If you put the teenage pregnancy issue to your teen like
that, your teen will be less likely to get pregnant or get
someone else pregnant.
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